There’s a lot of talk of pimping over at Roissy’s citizen renegade blog.

In the past I’ve always thought that terms such as “pimp my ride” and such were ghastly – you’re talking about the act of exploiting women’s sexual value for your own financial profit.

You can look at it from two ways – it’s despicably exploitative but it is also undeniably dominant. There is a fraction of the commenters – who though coming from a racist angle which is possibly even more despicable, look down on it as lower class, disempowered behaviour that they want no part of.

I do believe that most normal girls really don’t have the low self esteem required for dominant men to manipulate them into selling their bodies, and I don’t see that as something I’d ever aspire to, it’s dishonourable. But that doesn’t mean that there isn’t value in the subtle messages being conveyed here. This is not about aspiring to exploit women sexually it’s about tools and resources to become dominant. My view in the world is that the golden rule has very little value and we are all in constant conflict and friction with forces that conspire and attempt to hold us in place, dominate and exploit us.

Women, children, to high status white males, we’re no difference, we will get away with whatever we can if there is no force to hold us in place and that is where the principals of pimping come in. Acting dominant is going to rub people the wrong way, especially the more dominat ones who feel threatened and challenged. This is the problem I anticipate that I’m going to have to be strong and learn to face off against people who are not happy with my dominant behaviour.

It’s going to be a challenge enough as it is to learn to behave in a dominating way and reverse all the politeness and niceties I have ingrained in my behaviour and the feelings of panic and anxiety caused by conflict. But it is so essential to stand your ground, take the bluster of your competitors head on and ride it out. I believe my intelligence and discipline makes me a good candidate for alpha credibility but consistently my deferring behaviour lets me down and sends signals to others that

The fact that I present as quite non threatening is good for some things, but is not good for sexual attraction and social dominance.

The point is firstly, doing as I please, not really thinking too much about other people’s “feelings”, and when people get unruly, not being afraid to go all out, all or nothing, and just tell them to fuck off. Fuck off out of my life. This is what I notice with so many confrontations is that other people will say things they don’t mean because they’re upset, whereas I won’t say the things I mean because I’m afraid things will go to far and I want a resolution.

What I see is that if I throw down, sure I may lose some friends, sure, I may get a reputation, but some people will start to come under my domain, which is appropriate.

In the past year or so I’ve struggled with idea of dominant idiots – people who are the opposite of me – very socially dominant but not very smart, and how they create problems. The only solution is for people like me to become socially dominant and be smart enough to redress the imbalances.

I’m learning how to push on from not taking shit from anyone but I don’t see myself ever resorting to out and out domination displays, it’s just not me. For now whenever someone gets unruly I have to be ready to show them I mean business, and that’s a guy or girl. That I don’t care, I’d sooner not see someone who has crossed the line ever again, or have any further dealings, and while I tend to hide the fact I carry that coldness because I thought it a bad thing to show people how little I’m committed to them, in a lot of cases I think it might be beneficial.

Of course it may push some away but hey, we’ve got to be aware and open to the principal – if someone is pissing me off, whether male or female, they can fuck off, I will tell them so, and if they don’t like it, I don’t care. I can take care of myself.

Otherwise I will judge every situation on it’s own merits.

okay well I don’t really want to be doing this but hey. What’s the worst that can happen?

I don’t tick all the boxes on your checklist? oh boo hoo

My latest plan is pure evil. Well it’s not but I’m just so . . . like that – some people get gifts, a fraction of guys are great with woman. A fraction of guys are smart and I’ve always been a fan of going with what you know.

Yes I know, I should be working on my game, it’s an avoidance strategy, but in a way, it’s my own game. It’s like business, it’s like building a system – especially since approach and initial attraction are my weak points. Before I had game, I had myspace, and the way I learned to game myspace brought a result that only highlighted to me the benefits of leveraging female attention exponentially. It’s game for the thinking man – and believe me I apply that term here without any justifiable respect.

I’ve got my hook down, I noticed now I’ve started sending them my picture and telling them I’m looking for the right person, I get more responses.

First I want to see I can get them over to my place, maybe they’ll be good workers. But I want test them. Can they cook well and give a man a decent massage?

Once we’ve gone through that I think I’m fine to segue into a quasi-date, qualified clearly by being at night – a drink – and telling them to wear a dress and make up. Then depending on the outcome, I can tell them that since I’ve slept with them, I couldn’t possibly go through with any professional propositions, but they’re welcome to join uh ahh the queue if they would like me to review their girlfriend application. In other words, y’know, I’ll call them later rather than sooner if they’re not much to look at.

So what if it doesn’t work that way? Well do I want a girl I have to work on? Well if they’re hot maybe we might have a threshold, or if they’re pliable we might have to convince them of non exclusivity. Or tell them I have a girlfriend. But really I don’t see why we should pursue a girl who won’t give us a break, and if they do, then we have an excuse to back out and renegotiate on sexual terms. It’s a why buy the cow situation, put her out with the herd, and use the spot to bring in more stray livestock.

I’m sure if we’re desperate we can get them to work also. If they don’t want to have sex, then they’re no use, and if they do, entering into professional relations is bad news. We’ll have to see how it goes.

But assuming I do have it all with impunity, 1 or 2 girls here under my thumb, can I then still hold a position open and tell the new applicants that these girls are my flatmates? Sure, but then you can’t pull the pretenses that lead to the date. However, it’s a different sort of girl.

So we’ve got a girl in here and we want to move her on. Is this going to be easy? That’s why we look for more domesticated, pliable inpatients, and hot arm candy for our outpatients.

Can’t we bring everything back to sex? The fact that any girl you have sex with is likely to become a liability when she gets emotional is something you can turn around if you start insisting that emotions and sexual tension is making the situation untenable. I’m sure I can play romeo if it helps explain to a girl why I’m forcing her off, rather than simply upgrading. So again, think about your candidates.

It points to why I need 2 palaces, 1 to install my concubines, and one where my dalliances go unnoticed by my queen.

If that dream came true, why would I . . .

okay well I don’t really want to be doing this but hey. What’s the worst that can happen?

I don’t tick all the boxes on your checklist? oh boo hoo

See I’m posting even though my stupid ads aren’t running. Because this is important. It’s weak minded to sit there and try and say, oh no no no, my career, my hobbies are more important than getting girls.

That’s what a chick does. “Oh I don’t really need that anyway.”

We all have our hamsters, our rationalizations. Fucking hot girls is awesome. It’s an awesome confidence boost. Having a hottie out on your arm is a big status symbol. I refuse to pretend that it isn’t a big deal. I refuse to pretend it’s otherwise.

But money matters. I am obsessed with cash it’s terrible. Having no money would still be worse than having no girls. I mean seriously, at the end of the day.

I am not stupid enough to think that cash really appeals to nice young ladies, I think the more calculating ones . . . or those who come from a background that certainly normalizes being upper middle class, perhaps, but generally, cash isn’t a massive pull in itself. I know that.

But it started with the myspace era where I was most successful with girls, I actually got tired of being a douchebag, I wanted to actually have power rather than fake it, there was alwys a need to keep up a charade – it didn’t suit the projection, the frame I had with these girls for me to be as broke as I was, and I was over being broke.

anyway, here I am.

We all have to make our choices, and when it came to cost/benefit my resources are better employed in making profits, in any situation I have more to gain getting that money compared to chasing girls. So it’s time to regulate.

I created a plan to retire in my early 50′s. about 20 years from now. I had to work out the point at which chasing money became foolish when measured against my desired creative and sexual outcomes. And for awhile I just drifted in and out of complacency with my creative stuff.

Creativity makes you more interesting to women. But it distracts you from the priority, so I have started slipping into the mindset that as long as we maintain our projections in savings, and maintain our creativity as is suitable, then maybe I should just be focusing on girls.

I should recognise what I have to do to make money to reach my targets, and then base the rest of my behaviour around meeting young ladies.

It may be unnecessary but I need to get immersive. When I wake up in the morning and I have my coffee, I am thinking about the obligations I have to make money. Which has worked out except that my head is stuck in the mode of reacting to my emotions by channeling them into work.

Now I’m trying to rewire the process so that I put girls first, the only issue is that first thing in the morning may not be the time for it. But that’s of no regard, it’s about immersion. I felt it on saturday after I was partying and getting high on friday night at a bar where I was hanging out with very few girls. Why don’t I . . . it’s like doing anything. Force yourself to go somewhere where there are girls and then force yourself to talk to them.

It’s as simple as that.

I’ll make up on monday morning, have my coffee . . . wait instead of going to the cafe, why don’t I go to the mall and get coffee and walk around trying to talk to girls?

My pirate costume is not clean and really stinks, so I couldn’t wear it – it is a massive peacocking device especially in a mall. Not that I’ve tested it, but I’ve noticed before walking round in it that girls notice that you’re dressed as a pirate, and from there, it’s on.

But I thought I would double up and also have my camera and DJ mix CD’s – and even flyers as I have a gig coming up – so open with the pirate peacock lure, and then bust into whether they like the music I play and then I can offer them a cd in exchange for something:

phone digits
email
shoot some camera

To bring the camera in as the third act is brilliant because then I can ask them if they want to be in my music video.

I could even go one step further. Well actually there are many steps further I could go.

- I could pay some teenager to follow me around and be my assistant and go down that path

or go the opposite

- zone in on the milfs through their kids . . . so so creepy.

These ideas always seem like they’re smart until the cold light of day makes them seem creepy.

That’s how it has been with the assistant and my talent agency, when you’re not face to face, it seems completely dupliticious like it’s all a dirty trick, it’s something I can’t hold my head high and do.

I can’t hold my head high telling young ladies I’ll give them a job or I’ll entertain their kids if really I just want to bone them. That’s why it’s important for me to believe I will do as I say. If I won’t give them a job or entertain their kid, then don’t talk shit. That’s why I need to go out there as a pirate and not think of anything else, take it as it comes.

But I must admit the pirate would tempt me to attempt the SDL – SAME DAY LAY – because some fraction of chicks will have full on pirate fantasies and I just have to channel into it, and be fucking them within half an hour. Challenge accepted. But it will never work if I think of it that way, I have to think of it as work, I’m not ready to go head long into the day dressed as a pirate trying to meet girls.

There’s now, and then there’s then, then being the projection of hope for a better future. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of the conditioning and accept that perhaps all those messages you got growing up weren’t the right ones for you.

I have no doubt that even at this late stage as drift into my 30′s it’s not out of the question that I might find that rare girl who might be worth it but if you review the odds, and my track record, and the advice of the men

Stuff like this scares me: It’s a jezebel post about sex becoming passe which is just another stupid trend piece, which is then followed by a stream of comments from married women who feel that sex once a month is okay. Is normal.

And they refer to PIV sex (“penis in vagina”) as if there’s something else, because my personal preference is if my penis doesn’t go inside a vagina, then it’s not sex.

It just seems like a trap. It just seems like some chick desperately caught up in the idea that marriage will save her from herself, when it won’t, and she gets past my age and suddenly discovers it’s not what she wanted. So she only feels like sex once a month.

There was another advice piece in the local paper about a wife who couldn’t stand the sight of her husband or stand him touching her, even though she said he’d done nothing wrong. How messed up for that poor guy. You could imagine a guy saying that . . . because she got fat. But at least it would be clear and reasoned . . . don’t get fat! Most married guys are like dumb dogs anyway, as long as you feed them they aren’t going anywhere.

I think this explains the emphasis on domesticity that feminism destroyed, back in the day, a women got older, somewhat larger, who cared? She could cook, clean, take care of the kids, the deal worked.

So I picture myself 15 years from now. I’m about to turn 47 which is a weird age, a lot of guys seem to be 47, which is a weird statement but I seem to notice . . . for example the prime minister and deputy pm are both 47, or were when elected, and a number of other prominent men who’s sphere I fall within. It’s the middle of a career status arc from 30 to 65. I’ll be more successful then than now. But that’s off topic.

2 scenarios

I’m 47, my wife – let’s even say it’s ambrozia, my only 9 – is knocking on 40, we have a kid or two and I have my boring life where I have to consider them and possibly battle my wife in everything, including getting sex. By then I would probably be paying for it anyway and possibly running the risk of messing everything right up.

OR

I’m 47, I’m single, I’m wealthy and nearing retirement, I possibly have multiple girlfriends in auckland, probably girls in their 30′s younger and hotter (ie single so still maintaining themselves) than my wife would be. I may even get the odd 29 year old or expertly continue to game fat young girls. And in my other bases around the world. If one gets pregnant, I’m sure that’s good news. There might be some legal complications and costs and the women may use access as a weapon, but again, is that so tragic as to be worse than the outcome of all that happening while being married to the woman? All that nonsense except you’re paying for it while she lives in your house?

Isn’t it plainly obvious which is better? The ideal of a wife is for a weak man who can’t be emotionally resilient, when I was a young beta I sent many girls running with my emotional neediness, just because one bonds to you, it doesn’t make it less repellant to them.

At 47 there may be times I feel old and alone, but that IS life. I’ve felt alone plenty, it hasn’t killed me. It’s taught me that there isn’t mush to be gained by complaining to a girl that the world is a cold place and even more so for those who can not or will not strive. you’re either a lone wolf or a boring sheep, what would you rather be? As the women always say you can always feel alone in a marriage, I just think it’s a lot of young people’s mistakes to think that it solves all your problems in terms of getting old, expectations and companionship.

They look for foundations, for a construct, for something to lean on, I’m no different. Is marriage it?

Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

Prostitutes always held such a stigma, that they were for life’s absolute losers, but then I was brought up by mainly women and when you see how that fits with a female framing, then it makes sense that johns should be shamed.

Women have been freed from the kitchen but we haven’t been freed from their pussies.

In preparing for the worst I can only empathize with the advice that a few hundred dollars a week must surely get you a better deal with some hot young chick then the comparative supporting an aging wife who has her own motivations.

I’m not saying a beautiful young chick who comes along and understands that my ability to make money is the biggest part of a possible happy future for us, and contributes to that, couldn’t ensnare me.

But maybe we truly are entering more liberated times where people just like me accept that marriage doesn’t work for society.

For me having a distinguished female companion on my arm is an issue for my status. That’s a big one, but I think at 47 I’d rather be dating a fit girl who is my age now than married to her older sister trying to squeeze into the expensive dress I paid for and not getting laid afterwards.

Maybe I won’t have kids, and it will play on my mind what exactly my purpose is, but there’ll probably be one of those girls my age begging for it, and look how long we have. 15 years is literally half a lifetime away, 15 years ago I was just almost 17 – I was only starting out, and so I bounce back to my obligations now – keep my money going, keep my art going, stay dedicated to improving my game.

Learn to not fear approaching a beautiful girl, it’s not a crime and for now, for a few years, I probably still have the opportunity for them to welcome it.

Keep my dignity intact and not succumbing to creepy tactics, go see a prostitute, especially if I begin dating a hottie and have to have my performance and confidence in shape.

I’m just sitting here thinking, if there’s a hot young girl to chase, I’ll chase her, but what’s more insidious, walking around trying to pick up fat chicks, or spending $150 to bang a hot young skank and then getting back to work?

So anyway I might have to get some new advertisers or something, my meagre ad earnings are way down I never realised most of it came from this site but hey, that’s boring right?

What about the nice young ladies? Well I had a few annoying situations I had to deal to, and I sort of felt for awhile that I wasn’t to be chasing the girls and I just wanted to concentrate on my music, and then it kind of turned out that all the parts of my life I’m good at, making money and doing some creative stuff, well . . . it’s working out.

And I get a bit bored and I sit and whichever way you look at it, we don’t have enough nice young girls. I’m not sure where I’m at with it. I guess I continue to work less and keep my money steady and the dividends are arriving. Bored? When have I ever had the luxury of being bored in the last few years? But you can’t have boredom if you want to make something of yourself. And if I may be a little meta for a moment, I mean my music and creative stuff means everything to me, but I can’t allow it to get in the way of my game.

I just figure it’s a chumpish move to get creative as a path to pussy. Yay I can say pussy and all kinds of potty mouth words now I don’t have to worry about my ads being suspended – because it’s already done! It’s like money, my music is going okay. Not brilliantly, but okay, and I don’t think I need worry about it.

So it really does start coming down to the nice young girls and what kind of parameters are being set there.

I just don’t see the effort gaming girls who aren’t hot. Sure, take average girls back home and fuck them a lot, but I just don’t feel that’s exciting as a habit, as necessary as it is to get the skills together to deal with the hot ones. It came down to this: I just want to approach the hot girls I see. Forget day game or anything like that.

It’s the chateau roissy maxim: Men should approach all women that excite them. Make life uncomfortable for them, not you.

I agree with this. Once I had the annoying situations and my money and my music all back on track, suddenly I was getting frustrated again seeing hot girls and not being able to approach them – like you can in a bar or social setting. Sometimes – once recently I saw 6 hotties in a 15 minute period and I was wound up.

What was it? This nice-as-pie taylor swift hottie smiled at me and picked up my packing tape when I was in the post office and yet I still didn’t follow up a conversation with her, which was idiocy. She was really cute and the door was wide open.

But what’s the worse that could happen? Don’t think. See hot girls, talk to hot girls, it doesn’t matter what they say, even if they tell you to fuck off, well is that so bad? It about “having your face melted off a few times”, and then you’ll be fine, especially when you start getting results.

Scoring an average girl still boost your ego while getting shot down by hot girls is no good. It’s a cross to bear alright. I just don’t want to waste time on girls who aren’t worth chasing just to titillate myself.

Oh woe is me, I got caught out by google for linking to some porn sites and now they’ve taken away my ads.

It was only like a few bucks a week, but it was a nice crutch to think I had some purpose writing here other than drab revisions and projections in aid of honing my game or whatever hare brained scheme I’d come up with recently to meet girls.

I won’t give up writing here, but y’know. It sucks.

But in the meantime, here a commenter Surfed over at citizen renegade collected all of the maxims, I’m going to put them down here for my own reference and perusal.

Renegade’s/Roissy’s Maxims

Maxim #1a: Women desire men of better quality than themselves.

Maxim #2: Women are turned on by displays of male power.

Maxim #3: Whenever an attractive girl tells you she hates assholes, or describes her experience in the past dating assholes and claims to avoid them now, or recites a laundry list of asshole-y things guys do that she disapproves of, you can bet your weight in gold bricks that she wants you to be an asshole to her.

Maxim #4: Never trust a woman who is missing a sense of humor.

Maxim #6: Never. Make. It. Easy. For. A. Woman.

Maxim #7: Your girl will thank you for your steadfast devotion to your belief in yourself.

Maxim #8: Always assume she is a slut. It helps kick the legs out from under the pedestal you will be tempted to put her on, and it is more often than not true.

Maxim #9: The greater the age difference between the older man and the younger woman, the tighter his game will need to be, barring compensatory attributes (money).

Maxim #10: Marriage is a social mechanism designed to exchange sex for indentured servitude.

Maxim #11: Calling a girl out on her lie accomplishes nothing.

Maxim #12: When the love is gone, women can be as cold as if they had never known you.

Maxim #13: When in doubt, game.

Maxim #14: Female cultural equality = male dating inequality. Female cultural inequality = male dating equality. Human nature says that you can‘t have it both ways.

Maxim #15: Be narcissistic. There is no greater divergence than that between a woman’s stated disapproval of male narcissism and the rapidity with which she jumps into bed with a male narcissist.

Maxim #16: The two fundamental propositions are male choosiness and female abundance. All alpha males have these two mindsets in common. Corollary: Male choosiness and female abundance do not necessarily have to be true for the strategy of behaving as if they are true to be effective at seduction.

Maxim #17: The alpha male thinks and acts more like a woman than a man in matters of seduction. He understands his adversary’s psychology, and uses it to allay her defenses.

Maxim #18: Never talk about getting into a relationship even if she says that’s what she’s looking for.

Maxim #19: Withholding sex is the tactic of a woman who has already lost. It is mutually assured destruction.

Maxim #20: If a woman says the word “sex” in conversation with you or about you, no matter the context, it means she’s thinking about having sex with you.

Maxim #21: Women are more pliable in the company of competing women.

Maxim #22: You have to make marriage an attractive alternative for MEN — not women — if you want the institution to thrive.

Maxim #23: The vagina tingle is the principal moral code to which women subscribe. All other moral considerations are secondary.

Maxim #24: When in doubt, ask yourself “WWJD?” What Would a Jerk Do? Then do that.

Maxim #25: NO girl wants to be thought she isn’t a special little snowflake.

Maxim #26: Never tell a girl how much you make, even if you’re loaded. In case of marriage, keep separate accounts.

Maxim #27: If you want a wife, stay clear of investing much in girls who constantly remind you they like to have “fun, fun, fun” and “get bored easily”.

Maxim #28: The more experience you have with women, the more you’ll know which women have experience with men: It is the inexperienced beta male who is most often in the dark about a woman’s sexual history and liable to be victimized by it.

Maxim #29: Xenophobia is good for diversity.

Maxim #30: Women will not hold it against you for trying to get into their panties on the first night. In fact, they will respect you more for your boldness and willingness to follow your manly desires.

Maxim #31: If you plan on cheating and subsequently get caught, act like a total dick who did nothing wrong. Your girlfriend will then wonder if it’s something she did.

Maxim #32: Commanding women to do your bidding will give you a bigger beta margin of error when needed.

Maxim #33: Women need to test men for their grace under pressure.

Maxim #34: If she’s hot, why would she bother with online dating?

Maxim #35: Never trust a woman’s advice on how to please women. Her advice is designed for alpha men she already finds attractive and from whom she seeks signals of attainability and commitment.

Maxim #36: A woman’s sex and relationship advice isn’t meant to help men; it’s meant to distract men from what really works to attract women.

Maxim #37: High IQ is no inoculation against beta delusion. If anything, high IQ obstructs clear thinking about women’s nature.

Maxim #38: The longer you are away from seducing new women, the harder it will be to seduce one when you want.

Maxim #39: The worst thing to happen to women in America was women’s suffrage.

Maxim #40: Men are becoming ever bigger betas in their dealings with women. Men are losing the leverage to shape and push women’s child-like and selfishly amoral political opinions in logical, just and long-term oriented directions.

Maxim #41: The definition of Inner Game: Hit on every woman who excites you. Make life uncomfortable for them, not yourself.

Maxim # 42: When a girl signals that she doesn’t enjoy blowjobs or sex, do not spend one second more with her. Your libido is too important to gamble on such a girl.

Maxim #43: In their sexual primes women’s attraction for assholes is at its strongest. You can catch a lot of hungry flies with honey, but shit attracts the most well-fed flies.

Maxim #44: If you get sexually rejected, don’t admit it to yourself, and especially don’t admit it to the girl.

Maxim #45: Women will screech louder the closer your words get to damaging or exposing vulnerabilities in their sexual market value.

Maxim #46: Whenever you hear or read the words “gender”, “gendered”, “gendered norm”, “subtle gender bias”, or “increasingly egalitarian, yet there remains…” know that you are dealing with a leftwing moonbat, blank-slate believing fruitcake who cannot deal with the fact that men and women are biologically different from birth.

Maxim #47: Awareness of a woman’s games is a precision-guided weapon in a man’s arsenal of seduction.

Maxim #48: Respect the momentum.

Maxim #49: The rare older woman-younger man pairing is like a lab experiment gone wrong. It violates the natural order of things, and leaves its practitioners emotionally twisted and in a constant mental race to hyper-rationalize their sub-par mate choice.

Maxim #50: Marriage is no escape from the sexual market and the possibility that you may be outbid by a competitor with higher value.

Maxim #51: For most women, five minutes of alpha is worth five years of beta.

Maxim #52: Underneath the veneer of civilized discourse we act in ways that are brazenly self-interested in the short term.

Maxim #53: All kneel before the god of biomechanics, by sword or by surrender.

Maxim #54: When a woman has incentive to lie, she will choose lying over honesty EVERY SINGLE TIME.

Maxim #55: The prime directive of the alpha male is fornication. Anything which hinders the fulfillment of the prime directive is to be vanquished as a foe or excised from the mind as a cancer.

Maxim #55: Run for your Life Shit Tests:
BEWARE the classic gun-to-the-head marriage pressure administered by your typical non-descript, rudderless late 20’s/early 30’s woman.
When a woman pressures you mercilessly to marry her, bullying to the point of threatening a break up – this is the shit test of ALL shit tests. Treat it as such – If you fail this shit test, you are RUINED. FOR. LIFE.

Maxim #56: Waving a roll of benjamins at a woman will not give her tingles. In fact, it will often do the opposite.

Maxim #57: When a girl emphatically insists she is so over you, she’s never been more into you.

Maxim #58: Betas pay, alphas split, super alphas profit.

Maxim #59: A woman’s standards are like a house of cards: kick out one from the bottom and the whole edifice crashes down.

Maxim #60: As women’s bodies age and weaken, their rationalization hamsters grow bigger and stronger. Eventually, the hamster is powerful enough to take control of all higher order consciousness.

Maxim #61: The more expensive or thoughtful the gift you give a girl, the greater the risk that she will subconsciously begin to think she is too good for you.

Corollary to Maxim #61: If you are dating out of your league, or you are dating a young hot babe in her prime, you should do the exact opposite of what everyone will tell you to do — *don’t* buy her expensive gifts. Be particularly wary of advice from women. No woman in the world is capable of thinking clearly or impartially on the matter of “acceptable” levels of male provisioning. Even old, fat hausfrau hogs will expect mountains of jewels in offerings from men.

Maxim #62: Where there’s incentive, there are lies.

Maxim #62: Pregnant pauses are the player’s best friend.

Maxim #63: Consensual polyamory is a contrived hookup service for undesirable sexual market rejects.

Maxim #64: Use of the word “disenfranchised” or other similar nomenclature of deconstructivist post-modern pablum automatically discredits an argument for serious consideration.

Maxim #65: Chicks dig guys willing to risk an early, gruesome death. Expendability is a DHV.

Is the pinnacle the pursuit of the nice young ladies?

Don’t get me wrong. I’m an artist, I’m a lover of finer things to some extent, but whether you dine on macdonald’s or 5 star cuisine you’re still stuffing yourself and following your instinct to rut like an animal, there’s little romance outside of the pretty bows and ribbons you choose to tie on things.

I’ve been a little bit on the back foot recently because let me face it – I do treat my life like a mortgage, paying the interest, and just a little by ever increasing part of the principal so that one day I may own the right to do as I please.

The older and wiser I get the more I sense the one thing I am actually moving further from is the one thing of any truly increasing value. Money is a bit of a no brainer for me, I’m not rich, I’m better than that, I’m self sufficient. It’s not that I’m not rich, it’s that I’ll never be poor. Art is a worthy pursuit as long as you don’t care if nobody else does – it’s your life, your expression, as long as you’re not looking for validation from anybody else I don’t see why you wouldn’t pursue art as part of your fundamental existance, but money and art gets easier as you get older.

Maybe the driving, reckless, youthful passion dies, but the only thing we’re getting further from as we age is the hot girls and nice young ladies we want to make time with.

And I always say I’m a big fan of the roissy maxim that chasing status as your prelude to poon tang is ridiculous and a false short cut, no kind of short cut – though that is quite simplistic in it’s dismissal.

If I truly believed that I wouldn’t be going to make next spiel about how I have somewhat paused my pursuits as I’ve had few bills to pay on my BMW and such, my garden is unmaintained and I’ve had a few issues with business – I’ve been relatively uncomposed. I don’t want to drag all of that around with me in front of the ladies, I’m not going to be at my best if I’m harbouring concerns about bills I have to pay.

I need to project more assurance.

One of my worst habits is slipping into dawky class clown mode and it’s just not commanding enough especially with my hieght. I know there’s a right way to play it, but too often it ends up becoming about me begging for a woman’s attention by putting on a sideshow, and it’s deeply ingrained.

Again I’m just recognising my behaviour because those routines are fine until you get above 7.5 and those girls aren’t going to be impressed with that kind of schtick.

And my underlying thoughts are constantly swinging between keeping active and raising my bar.

But that wasn’t even what I was talking about.

Why would I take time out from my development to worry about my business and my car and such? Because I’m not at my best when I’m concerned with such things, which suggests everything else is merely an attempt to make life optimal for chasing girls.

I’m kind of uninspired artistically so I just tend to think, well, why not just chase girls for a little while?

By the end of the day I’ve always got some dumb idea in my stupid head. But if my money is taken care of and I’m able to say what I want to say when I’m ready to speak with art, then what else would you do?

You’d chase hot girls and the more money and freedom you had the further afield you’d roam.

That’s what I realise since I did my garden. Fix my BMW, put up some videos I said I would . . . old clients, websites, they don’t matter, not even this one, because it’s not necessary, I just want to chase girls and adventure. If I make some art, then all the better, as long as business stays good.

I need a bit of cash for some new clothes and some more improvements to the house, and a new video camera, and my official artist website, I could use a spare few grand for all that. But yeah, it’s quite straightforward really. Handle your business, go chase nice young ladies.

This is my blog, Nice Young Ladies.

This is my blog about my interest in girls basically. I think it’s a perfectly legitimate way to make progress if you’re trying to learn something – such as game – to keep a journal, but this isn’t specifically my game journal, it’s a journal which is kind of about girls.

Because I link to this blog when I comment on game blogs, of which I notice heaps of amateurs just like me are jumping up with their own thing, I thought I might plant a post in here about what I’m doing here.

The name “Nice Young Ladies” is a personal joke from years ago I once made about “starting a christian pron site.” But also that I’m not really into hardcore female exploitation, I just like to score girls and as much as I love sluts and have a lot of time for them, I also really appreciate those nice girls, who are nice and alluring for other reasons than how hard they want you to give it to them right now.

I guess it’s obvious Roissy’s blog continues to get really popular, because not only do I get heaps of traffic coming through there, but I notice how many commenters have their own game blogs, and they’re kind of like me, talking about issues around getting laid.

I think it’s fine if you’re like me and just want to shoot some proverbial, I feel sorry for the guys who think they actually are going to be like Roissy, or have all these goals about how their going to score this amount of women in this amount of time, well . . . hey, good luck.

I’m 31, but I definitely look younger, and as a club DJ (it’s just a hobby) I’m in with a younger crowd.

After stumbling out of the “protected market” of high school, I wandered in the wilderness for some years before a chance happening on a brand new site called Myspace, which kept me in a blessed stream of action for over 2 years, and taught me so so much, including that a short guy with a big nose could score seriously hot girls just by acting like a bit of a douchebag prick.

But eventually I became more focused on my money situation and not being some broke slacker devoting half my time to chasing the gash.

Of course that was when Mystery and the Game came to prominence, so I continued to follow it.

I’d read Dr. Love, and I’d read seduction chronicles, and I read some really bombastic stuff on this site “Bristol Lair”, I read a blog “bad man bad place” which was a about a older, more sophisticated players adventures, kind of felt similar to roissy’s vibe.

I think he settled down or something. It is a lot of work to be continually prowling, especially as your hormones simmer down.

I still subscribe to David Wygant because he seems a little less of chumpish marketing douche (i’m in marketing), and finally just last year I was reading some article in some respected publications online site where the reffered to Roissy in DC.

But yeah I just got really got sick of big noting it on myspace in an environment where everyone was full of fakeness and burnishing their image, I wanted some accomplishments, some money, that was real, that represented something good, I’d done that was real, I got sick of pretending to be the dude that girls would be into. It was such douchebag crap.

But it certainly opened up to me the possibility of how you can tap into streams of girls if you’re smart on the internet.

I’m a business man, so I tend to treat it as a business, you need to play the numbers game, you need to have a system to bring you fresh leads.

I believe that, but I also believe there is no reason why I shouldn’t have the nuts to approach any hot girl anywhere, and I know I have the nuts to do it, it’s just a bit of a process.

So I guess that’s a little bit I wanted to share for now about what I blog about here.

Yes I journal my attempts to get laid, but I’ll blog on anything related to nice girls.

I am not a right winger, and I am not a woman hater, or someone who thinks women are lesser or weaker, I just love scoring girls, I love hooking up with sluts who put out, I love anything which is a quick in and get the fuck out, but I also endeavour to pursue quality women, it’s just hard work, obviously and I don’t ever want to go back to the oneitis that plagued me pre-myspace.

I’m not planning to win any prizes for blogging, this is just my blog where I like to write about the fact I like girls and what I’m doing about it.

So next I am going to visit a new nice young lady, because I have really stepped up to actually getting them to meet me now.

The idea is to plan in short steps, once I’ve got a contact or a number, I need to shuttle that along to a meeting as quickly as possible. So I am starting to get over the fact it seems dodgy when you talk to a girl online or whatever and you’re like, ok ok, yes yes, are you free?

But no, I’m just going with it, I think talking online is just too much of an opportunity to say the wrong thing while still just being this dude she’s never met, and I find especially for me, girls are going to meet me and realise that they’re not threatened at all so I guess I need to work now on calibrating the next step.

I realise now that once I’ve met them, they will know I am not really a worry – I want them to feel relaxed but not too comfortable if you know what I mean.

I think my plan is to keep the dates pretty casual and short until I go in for the close and change the deal so she knows it’s on. 3 short daytime coffees and then suddenly the friday night clincher.

There’s also the assistant angle which is similar, it should be pretty clear where I’m going once I flip the script and start talking about a friday or saturday night scene, I just wonder how I can cook it up until then, and if I blow it, can I convincingly play the card of saying that I couldn’t work with her because of my “feelings”?

HAHAHAHA

My issue is basically, if the girl can work, there’s no need to speed things along.

But what can a girl do?

Type letters? Write blogs?

As I said to me – I think paying some hot girl $50 to work and practice your game on for an afternoon is better than hiring a prostitute. Sex isn’t really the reward, it’s really just a cold beer at the end of a hard days work.

Newsletters, ad campaigns. I could teach them how. I think that’s the way it goes, slowly, if they’re too dumb, they might find themselves more suited to other duties.

Start with the hard work with a professional tone, and the less jobs they can handle, well the less professional it’s going to get, I’ll need a massage and I’ll need to snuggle up close and do a lot of kino showing their silly selves how to do it.

Then I’ll need a massage, and then it will probably have to go to video, where we can get flirty.

That’s the thing, we can always go to bikinis and dancing and what not I think that’s obviously where I’ll say let’s do this on a friday or saturday, and don’t really hide what I actually plan to do, which is take her home in the morning

Also the next top model auditions are coming up and I’m hitting it.

You think if I don’t go out there with hundreds of young girls I’m not going to pull in at least a dozen girls?

Well it looks like I lost cassie but that’s fine, she was a nice stepping stone to a point I’m at now where girls I can’t meet are only so much use as I said – building lots of social proof is one thing for sure.

Maybe I could sell it? 20 personalised shots of girls with “I <3 screenname” for $50? Might not take off.

You do have to try stuff though, throw it to the wall, see if it sticks.

Hey we’re looking for promo models!

our company does a huge range of promotions and marketing, we have a strong background in events and management but we also do a whole host of promotions and ongoing marketing online for a range of different products, which increasingly involve youtube videos and other viral content such as blogs and social media sites.

We’re experienced managing talent in the music industry and a big part of what we offer is our ability to promote your personal brand through your own website and earn a share of advertising revenue from that while promoting yourself and creating an online presence, a huge boost to launching your professional career.

There are no fees, no contracts!

What we do:

build websites / write blogs / build your profile + brand online / youtube videos / viral campaigns / music videos / flyer distribution / promote products / split advertising revenue / children’s entertainment / event management and promotion

What we don’t do:

charge fees / take bookings and act as your “agent” / fashion shows / fashion shoots

If you’re interested in the fashion and high end of the industry or a looking for an agent, we are not the best choice.

If you have a range of skills to contribute to our marketing and promotions team from appearing in online campaigns, promoting events, and want to benefit from our support in building a profile for you online to launch your personal brand, as well as getting practical experience in promotions, drop us an email with your age and a photo!

So my modelling agency is going great. Sort of.

Maybe not going, but it’s getting to going. At least girls send me hot pics.

IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE OF MY MODELS, SEND PICS TO NICEYOUNGLADIES@GMAIL.COM

A lot of black chicks send me pics but none of them have really been that hot, in fact a few of them have been crazy and I guess I made a connection between girls who want to be models and girls who just want to be told that they’re hot when they’re clearly not. Oh well. I just do what I do.

But finally I have got a girl who is obviously amenable to whatever activities I propose and she’s quite hot too. I knew I had hit the motherload when I asked her about bikini and underwear shots and she sent the pic at the bottom, just panties and hand over her boobs, I think we could make this girl a star!

It’s just me, I do this because I figure I already make enough money, anything else I do should at least have a high interest factor, and hot young girls are just one thing I figured would never get boring, so it makes sense as an investment, if I actually make any money or develop a professional platform, well that’s a bonus becuase I still just like girls sending me pics, and then using them for social proof, so really, if there’s no money in it, well, hey.

But of course I know . . . sooner or later, before I get bored, there’s bound to be some money somewhere, I’m smart like that.

Teddy likes bosoms. I assume.

I think girls who are happy to send me pictures like this are a worthwhile investment, wouldn’t you say?

Cassie says:
hey! okay right now im taking pics
Matt says:
cool, well send them through, and I can give you feedback
Cassie says:
okay do you have facebook?
Matt says:
no, im too busy!
Cassie says:
lol well i would say i have alot of pics on there lol
Matt says:
sure, but remember we’re trying to create a brand for you, so we want to move towards a more professional look
Matt says:
also a video for youtube would probably be a good idea too
Cassie says:
like how on youtube?
Matt says:
well we’re trying to showcase what you can do
Matt says:
a lot of clients want youtube videos done with a cute girl
Matt says:
so we need a video that our clients can watch and decide they’d like to use you
Matt says:
but also, we’re trying to build your brand
Matt says:
so if you have videos getting lots of hits
Matt says:
that helps a lot
Cassie says:
like how do i do a video lol
Matt says:
well have you got a video camera? can you get a hold of one?
Cassie says:
yes sir
Matt says:
well just record some stuff, and we can do the editing, titles etc
Cassie says:
okay, and right now i am downloading some pics i took and I love the color purple cuz it brings out my inner beauty in modeling
Matt says:
what would you say are your best features?
Matt says:
(note ill probably ask you stuff like this again when we do proper “interviews”)
Cassie says:
I love winter fashion. and summer. bikinis. and i love showing off lol does that help with the question lol
Matt says:
haha that was going to be my next question, bikinis, underwear, you’re comfortable with all that?
Cassie says:
yes sir
Matt says:
great, you should get me some bikini / underwear shots
Matt says:
obviously sex appeal is a big part of this industry
Cassie says:
Okay, i sent yu sum pics.
Cassie says:
I will try sum underwear
Matt says:
thats great, as long as you’re in the habit of sending pics we can make progress
Cassie says:
okay thats a deal
Matt says:
we’re wanting to move from the “in the mirror” shots to a more professional look, but in the mirror is fine if you can give it a cheeky, personal feel
Matt says:
so what is your height?
Cassie says:
5″3′
Matt says:
the first one is cute but a little blurry
Matt says:
measurements?
Cassie says:
whats that?
Matt says:
hip, waist, bust measurements?
Cassie says:
well i wear size 3 in juniors?
Cassie says:
how do i measure?
Matt says:
sure, you might have to get a tape measure out!
Cassie says:
lol okay
Matt says:
ok, whats your cup size?
Cassie says:
34 c
Cassie says:
28 inches waist
Matt says:
cool
Cassie says:
ok whats bust size?
Matt says:
34
Cassie says:
ok am i skinny enough to be a model?

Matt says:
it depends on what type of modelling

Cassie says:
im into runway modeling photo shoots modeling. umm anything that is modeling
Matt says:
sure, well that is for the taller, skinnier girls, but we’ll see how we go
Matt says:
lots of confidence in that new shot! thats great
Matt says:
you should probably do more like this so we can pick the best
Cassie says:
okay, well how many pictures do i need to send?
Matt says:
as I said you have to be in the habit of doing new shots, new locations, new outfits regularly, every week
Matt says:
we’re always looking for the perfect shot thats “wow!”
Cassie says:
okay i can do it! Tomorrow I will have my friend take pro pics for me
Matt says:
well thats what we want to do, there’s only so far you can get taking shots of yourself
Cassie says:
yeah i know. i wanna become a model so bad.
Matt says:
well I can help you, just you have to patient and build this long term
Matt says:
you’ve got a cute girls next door vibe, and you’re showing confidence so thats a good start
Cassie says:
I have alot of confidence. Im not shy what so ever. Like for a photo shoot and i had to take a pic wit a girl i would do it
Matt says:
well im hear to advise you there, and as you progress make sure you avoid making any mistakes
Cassie says:
What do you mean making mistakes?
Matt says:
so many young girls want to be models, and there are a lot of people out there who will exploit that
Matt says:
when you start getting offers for work, you need to know what you’re getting into, whether you’re dealing with reliable people
Cassie says:
yes I know, I just dont want to get paid for modeling i want to show the world that true beauty is out there.
Cassie says:

Matt says:
I like your enthusiasm and confidence, cassie!
Matt says:
It’s also about you knowing where you’re boundaries are and feeling confident with that.
Cassie says:
And I do understand once I become on the spot. I can’t be a normal teen. I have to about my career i love doing. Ever since I was born I modeled. But never by myself. I wanna become famous and let my true beauty out instead of hiding in the crowd.
Matt says:
well this is the thing, there are pretty girls who want to be models everywhere
Matt says:
but branding and character is what seperates the real stars
Matt says:
is kim kardashian that much more beautiful than other girls?
Matt says:
no, its that her brand is so strong
Cassie says:
that is very true.
Cassie says:
Im not a druggy or never will i do drugs. like alot of models do.
Matt says:
you’re cute and your confident, which is great, now we have to build a character for you
Cassie says:
How do we build a character?
Matt says:
Well it’s about who you are
Matt says:
we need to tell a story of a girl who is cute and hot and confident and exciting
Matt says:
we want other girls to see a version of themselves they want to be
Cassie says:
Well to tell the truth i love sexy outfits. if i could i would be a girl next door if i could lol
Matt says:
Well thats the thing, men love to be titillated, so innocence and teasing is a great character
Matt says:
it also works because you’re young
Matt says:
thats also part of the business too, that sexiness sells
Cassie says:
sweet ill pass that great! l,ol
Cassie says:
lol
Matt says:
awesome. As long as you let me know what you’re comfortable doing, I can work with that.
Matt says:
obviously the girls with a sexier image are going to get noticed quicker
Matt says:
but this is a marathon, not a sprint!
Cassie says:
Im confortable with almost everything.
Cassie says:
When i get in front of a camera i know exactly what to do. some times you got to be flirtatous.Some you have to show excitment and fun
Matt says:
That’s right
Matt says:
I mean, some of our clients will possibly only want a girl in a bikini to stand there with their product or talk about it, etc
Matt says:
and put that on youtube
Matt says:
or as you know I work with a lot of bands, so we could use footage of you for music videos
Cassie says:
i would love to be footage for music videos!
Matt says:
well first tip for you self photo shoots is you should be aware of your background
Matt says:
if you stand against a plain wall
Matt says:
it’s easier to work with the image
Cassie says:
Okay like have you ever met like Miley Cyrus?
Matt says:
have I met her?
Matt says:
haha no
Cassie says:
haha
Matt says:
the musicians i deal with arent THAT big
Cassie says:
like who?
Matt says:
no ne you would have heard of
Matt says:
mainly small bands trying to make it
Matt says:
just like you!
Matt says:
but of course, it looks really good for the band if we can get some video of cute girls saying the band is awesome
Cassie says:
okay maybe sometime me and you can go around town and take pics? depends where y live.

Matt says:
so, to create a sexy image for you as I said
Matt says:
we’ll probably want to do an interview
Cassie says:
ok when?
Matt says:
probably not now cos im a bit busy
Matt says:
but obviously, ill be in character
Cassie says:
ok
Matt says:
and you’ll be in character
Cassie says:
sweet lol
Matt says:
I guess it’s really about how naughty you want to make it
Cassie says:
what?
Matt says:
well as I said, just like paris hilton, kim kardashian etc
Matt says:
if you have a sexy image, you get noticed
Matt says:
but thats up to you to decide what you’re comfortable with
Cassie says:
im just confused lol
Matt says:
haha ok
Matt says:
well basically if we do an interview I’ll try and ask you some pretty edgy questions becuase we want to excite the readers and your future fans
Cassie says:
lol awesome okay
Matt says:
it’s up to you to say “Matt, I’m not comfortable with that.” or “Matt, don’t print that”
Cassie says:
how do we do a intervew?
Matt says:
just like this of course
Cassie says:
ok when do we start?
Matt says:
it would be great to have a good set of photos so we can do your bio and the interview, so lots more bikini / underwear shots please
Matt says:
then its about timing
Matt says:
when do you usually go to bed?
Cassie says:
well in a hour actually lol
Matt says:
so you’ll be up in say, 10 hours?
Cassie says:
yes
Matt says:
well maybe around then.
Cassie says:
okay. do tyu have texting?
Matt says:
yes, but it might cost a bit to send overseas
Matt says:
maybe jut give me an email, if im around, ill get it
Cassie says:
okay. or when you come back to the united states.
Matt says:
sure, is there something you want to text me? heh
Cassie says:
haha no i thought to keep in contact. lol
Matt says:
ill be around, just email me and I can jump on msn and chat with ya
Matt says:
sometimes I get super busy though so if I disappear for a week
Matt says:
its becuase I got something big on
Cassie says:
okay kewl. and do i get a manager later on?
Matt says:
possibly, in the modern world, its smart if you get the skills to manage yourself – with my help
Matt says:
thats what most bands are doing now
Matt says:
a manager comes later when you’re really making it
Cassie says:
okay. great, im hoping to get big
Matt says:
well cassie, get it into your head now that it will take years. I know that sounds scary, but this is how you make it.
Matt says:
you might get lucky, but you don’t need it because you’ve got time, and my help
Cassie says:
okay thank you.
Matt says:
no problems, if that doesn’t freak you out and you’re patient, i think we could be a good team
Cassie says:
okay thats fine, i am very patient
Matt says:
also remember the way I work is that you get money from the advertising that will be on your website
Matt says:
for the first year it might only be $10 a week
Matt says:
but then it grows
Matt says:
and grows
Matt says:
and you don’t even have to do much
Cassie says:
okay well when do i start with my website and everything?
Matt says:
well we need more shots so we can decide on some really strong shots to lead the site with
Matt says:
in fact this could take a while because we want a lot of shots to choose the best from . . .
Matt says:
like hundred
Matt says:
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Cassie says:
okay imma try and get some while at school tomorrow
Matt says:
you wear sexy outfits to school? haha
Matt says:
have you got some high heels and a little black dress?
Matt says:
another sexy look to go for
Cassie says:
yes
Matt says:
great
Matt says:
obviously on the site we want to show some range
Cassie says:
okay
Matt says:
well ive got to go, but ill talk to you tomorrow!

Here’s some more pics I got sent, I don’t know what to say to this chick, I can’t make her into a real model – which I guess she already is – and I’m not going to lie to her, I’m not that much of a prick.

All I can do is tell her I make websites and run a marketing company, and I’ll do what I can if she wants to chat.

one day I’ll be able to spin out a girl like this . . .